Happy, Tired & a Little Sunburnt

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So I promised to tell you about our first camping trip with the girls, so here it is! ūüôā

We, being the greedy locals that we are, took advantage of our rights as the hometown crowd by setting up our tent on our chosen site a night early.¬† We found an amazing spot on Huckleberry Island that friends had told us had a great little sandy beach.¬† It was absolutely fabulous!¬† Definitely our new favourite spot.¬† It was perfect for the kids to play in and out of the water and there was plenty of space to set up our tent on sandy soil covered with soft pine needles…which around here is like discovering gold!¬† Most places, especially on Georgian Bay crown land, you are literally pitching your tent on a rock.¬† So this was a bonus! ūüôā

Since this is a popular spot for people to go camping it includes a fire pit, rack for cooking, ‘toilet’ in the bushes, table/shelf built between two trees and rope to hang your food in trees overnight.¬† For those of you who are not campers, this is so that the wildlife does not get into your food.¬† Bears and raccoons are not welcome midnight guests!

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Finding this spot on Thursday evening was just such a special gift from God.  The girls loved it and seeing it beforehand helped them be even more excited!

Friday I scurried around all day crazily trying to get everything packed and Kirby was able to get off work by 4 o’clock, so we loaded everything up into¬†the work boat. I will add in here that we’ve been abundantly blessed by Kirby’s employers at Rockscape Design. Their generosity is a challenge and huge blessing to us! We are so grateful for them and the many ways they have blessed us in the past few years.

The girls were so excited to get there and explore our ‘home’ for the weekend. They went into the water briefly Friday evening already, but didn’t last long since it was pretty chilly. Kirby ended up having to run back home for a few things I forgot…the camera battery and memory card and his swim trunks! Sigh. One of those moments where you go…really?!

Once we had everything we wanted and needed there, we settled in for some FAMILY TIME. Was awesome having all the time in the world to just be together and enjoy the outdoors. I forgot how exciting things like camping are for kids. It was so much fun watching the girls set up their beds in the tent (complete with ONE stuffy Mommy allowed them to bring), run around exploring, searching for caterpillars, finding a perfect spot to build a fort with Daddy and pretending to drive the boat.¬† They love campfires at home, but cooking all our meals over the fire was so fun for them.¬† Alexa thought that was her favourite part of camping ūüôā¬† We got to stay up late eating s’mores, have story time beside the campfire, have chips and PB&J at random times, go for bear hunts in the bushes and swim in the beautiful, pure waters of Georgian Bay.¬† The girls slept great in the tent, bundled up in their fuzzy onesies and sleeping bags.¬† Our tent was on a bit of a hill and Alexa ended up at Daddy’s feet by morning, curled up in a little ball somewhere in the fluffy depths of her sleeping bag.¬† We all had fun doing dishes in the lake, though an awful lot of dishsoap seemed to disappear over the weekend with two small pairs of hands squirting!¬† Akeisha got to help Daddy drive the boat and practise her lefts and rights ūüôā¬† Both girls hate porta-potties, so this makeshift toilet in the bushes with spider webs just under the rim and an awful stench was not the best experience!¬† Every time we had to take a trip there we’d talk about being brave all the way there and then sing songs to distract us while we got the job done…this is something I started awhile ago at a park where we needed to use the portable toilet.¬† It works! ūüôā

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Mommy and Daddy?¬† Well…we just relaxed in the sun and water, enjoying our beautiful daughters ‚̧

The girls are already anxious to go again…and so am I.¬† It’s the best thing in the world for a family trying to spend lots of time together and shut out the rest of the world.¬† I’m not hard core enough to be able to head out tenting for a week, but a weekend is perfect.¬† Easy, fun and FREE vacation ūüôā

AF

 

This Little Life of Mine…

This week has been so good ūüôā

I am just¬†so enjoying each day I have with my girls and it feels like we’re hitting a nice little groove…which I will try not to expect to last too long!¬† Last week felt a bit bumpy and I just felt the Grumpy Mama Syndrome setting in, which is the last thing any of us need these days.¬† So this week I was determined to be positive, say yes when I can, keep things light and just enjoy my daughters.¬† The pay off has been awesome! ūüôā

Monday we just enjoyed being together after a busy weekend.  Hung out at home, cleaned up the house a bit so we felt sane again and ran a few errands.

Tuesday we went strawberry picking with some great friends of ours.¬† It rained a bit on us, but that was ok.¬† It was wonderful to spend time with friends again, and since these particular friends include kids ages 4 and 6, the girls had a great time.¬† By the time we made it home it was pouring rain and the house felt cool and damp, so we all ended up in jammies making strawberry pie for dinner.¬† On my way home from our friends I had noticed Pizza Hut’s sign…Tuesdays kids eat free…and we couldn’t quite pass that up on a rainy day ūüôā¬† So we ate pizza for dinner and even managed to squeeze in biking up and down the street with Alexis from across the street.¬†¬†Akeisha and Alexa love to bike, especially with Alexis, and I am so proud of how¬†well they’re doing!¬† Akeisha loves to zoom up and down the street, showing off her tricks to us.¬† Alexa is gaining confidence each day and making lots of progress, despite the hard work it is¬†for her little legs to pump those pedals.¬† She’s so proud that she can now bike down our big hill!¬†¬†The girls also had fun watching Alexis¬†try out her¬†four¬†wheeler-turned-two wheeler on Tuesday night.¬†¬†She had been saying for about a week to Kirby, me and her Mommy and Daddy that she was ready for her training wheels to come off!¬† So Tuesday night ended up being the big night, and off she went!¬†¬†The first few rides were rough, but in no time she got the hang¬†of it and by today she’s a pro ūüôā¬†¬†This is what I love about¬†our¬†neighbourhood…the whole street felt like it was lit up as the kids zoomed up and down shouting out “Look at me!”¬†and parents and neighbours waved and smiled and clapped.

Wednesday was¬†the day for grocery shopping,¬†making strawberry¬†jam, and some laundry since it was nice and my dryer is broken ūüė¶¬† I just have to insert here that I LOVE strawberry jam!¬† I love it on toast, muffins and icecream ūüôā¬†¬†My girls now love it, too, and even though it is super unhealthy because it’s loaded with sugar we eat it almost every day.¬† Alexa loves PB+J…on toast or a wrap, especially with this jam!¬† It is the recipe off the Certo¬†package, which my Mom used when I was a kid.¬† I just¬†can’t quite imagine anything better!¬† Yesterday I realized there is also a recipe on their for Strawberry-Banana Jam, and since I had¬†bananas I tried a bit of that too.¬† Thinking that is going to be super yummy as well, though I haven’t actually tried it¬†yet.¬†¬†Anyway, back to Wednesday.

Early afternoon Alexis wandered over, as she does most days, and she and Akeisha got creative making a fort in the bushes!¬† Copying Franklin’s Secret Clubhouse,¬†I agreed to sacrifice an old sheet and they strung it up over their little house.¬† All afternoon they blazed¬†trails, collected¬†treasures and cared for their worms and caterpillars in their little fort.¬† I love seeing kids¬†use their imaginations to play this way, so I¬†was delighted¬†ūüôā¬† They had hot chocolate…yes, in July…made¬†signs and got¬†covered in¬†mud and sand.¬† Alexa joined¬†in the fun a bit, but was a little less enthralled with tromping through the bushes.¬†¬†Akeisha was so excited, it was all she could talk about all evening.

Today¬†we are enjoying the beautiful sunshine and¬†scheming¬†about our camping trip this weekend.¬† As long as the weather cooperates we plan to spend the weekend roughing it on one of the many crown land islands on beautiful Georgian Bay.¬† If it rains…well…I guess we can always head out early, since it’s so close.¬† FREE, FUN and CLOSE BY!¬† Love¬†living here in the summertime ūüôā¬† We’ll see how tenting treats us and what kind of adventures we can come home with on Sunday.¬† This morning¬†Akeisha woke up early and went straight out to her fort, bundled up in her housecoat and two coats over top of her¬†pajamas!¬† LOL.¬† So far she has eaten breakfast (her toast, milk and banana) and lunch (KD) out there.¬† Alexa cautiously joined the fun a bit later, but was a little worried there would be bears!¬† She came in¬†sniffling to tell me that Akeisha was out bear hunting with her water gun¬†but she was afraid she would get “attackled!”¬† I reassured her that, though there are bears around here, they would stay far away from noisy children ūüôā¬† She still has not ventured back there much, however.¬† I guess the mud, sticks and mosquitoes don’t draw her quite as much.

It is all the wonderfully ordinary moments that I am just loving this week.¬† Dirty feet, sticky hands and messy faces.¬† My bathroom floor covered in bubbles from a little girl’s messy bath; what feels like thousands of ketchup stained purple and pink shirts in my laundry; tousled auburn hair against my cheek every morning on top of a sleepy smile.¬† I guess it’s because that’s what motherhood looks like.¬† KD on the floor, caterpillars on the deck, little arms and legs covered with scabs and bruises, shoes inside the door and markers and stickers everywhere.¬† Right now there’s a little girl sitting in my lap with hair that smells like mosquito repellent.¬† There’s another little girl dashing in the door giggling about something.¬† It’s time for me to go and give them some attention, but I hope this gives you a peek into our lives these days ūüôā

The other¬†night the girls were dancing around the living room¬†and snuggling with Daddy while I played the piano.¬† Since we’d just been biking I thought of the song “You Can Let Go.”¬† I started singing it, but even though I’d sung it a thousand times before I only got a few phrases in and felt my throat closing up.¬† For the first time I thought about these two little girls someday growing up and walking down the isle beside my husband.¬† Because of that, I want to treasure every moment.¬† Too soon they won’t be little girls anymore tugging at my hands and holding up their treasures for me to see.¬† There is so much to do, and so little time…so one day, one moment at a time we will treasure this little life we have.

YOU CAN LET GO

By Crystal Shawanda

Wind blowing on my face
Sidewalk flying beneath my bike
A five year old’s first taste
Of what freedom’s really like

He was running right beside me
His hand holding on the seat
I took a deep breath and hollered
As I headed for the street

You can let go now, Daddy, you can let go
Oh I think I’m ready to do this on my own
It’s still a little bit scary but I want you to know
I’ll be okay now, Daddy, you can let go

I was standing at the altar
Between the two loves of my life
To one, I’ve been a daughter
To one, I soon would be a wife

When the preacher asked
“Who gives this woman?”
Daddy’s eyes filled up with tears
He kept holding tightly to my arm
‘Til I whispered in his ear

You can let go now, Daddy, you can let go
Oh I think I’m ready to do this on my own
It’s still feels a little bit scary but I want you to know
I’ll be okay now, Daddy, you can let go

It was killing me to see the strongest man I ever knew
Wasting away to nothing in that hospital room
You know he’s only hanging on for you

That’s what the night nurse said
My voice and heart were breaking
As I crawled up in his bed and said

You can let go now, Daddy, you can let go
Your little girl is ready to do this on my own
It’s gonna be a little bit scary but I want you to know
I’ll be okay now, Daddy, you can let go

Hope you all have a super weekend!¬† I’ll let you know how the camping goes ūüôā

AF